The devotee

I have been on the website for some time now and patterns are beginning to emerge. Firstly, the boys differ based on where they come from...the Canadians are incredibly polite, to the extent you think they would ask for permission to proceed at that crucial moment, decimating all hope of release. I dont know about you but I like a little less formality with my passion. The Americans are not too bad until you get down to it, when they become very selfish and unimaginative...and dont get me started with the "daddy" fixation! The French are very matter of fact about the whole thing and get to the point without delay. They arent interested in words either, its the real thing or "au revoir". While I have to admire their clarity (you know EXACTLY where you stand), like the Americans, they make the fatal flaw of getting too heavy before I am immersed. So they appear silly, vulgar and a tad desperate! I wonder if they realise, or care. Now the Brit boys are a different matter. There are still some boys letting the side down by emulating the North American Contingent but for the best part, they are really good fun. They tease and banter like no-one else and dont rush things.

Within each population, there are sub species which are far more interesting to guess. Type 1 are the complete lost causes....so cack handed in their approach that they would struggle to get anyone to entertain their requests. In this group, I include the ones still living with their mother or who spend their time talking about their family. Type 3 are the players who are there to get their kicks with no regard for anyone elses feelings....these boys will do what they can to get the prize but once they have won, they lose interest. To them, the webiste is the arena of the game they WILL win, whatever the odds. I like these boys because they can up their game and I do like a challenge! However, they lose interest too quickly...no sticking power!

That leaves the majority who are on the website because they are missing something in their real lives. This can be as fundemental as the lack of intimacy and affection in a partner. Alternatively, its because they want to do things they cant do at home, like dominate, submit, roleplay, foreplay,etc etc. They dont want to hurt anyone and care about things like how am I going to get home, am I enjoying myself. Theres nothing wrong with this...in fact its the bravest and almost natural thing to do...after all, everyone deserves to be happy, dont they? Its curious that we can find happiness with stranger, even if it is for a moment.