I am sure the website is a melting pot of humanity but at the moment its full of guys casting their nets, hoping to capture a quick fix of excitement!!! Unfortunately, they come across as vulgar and worse, needy. I much prefer the man who can banter his way out of a corner and is prepared to stay the course.
Why do people like talking about their woes all the time? Thats not how it works...its certainly no way to attract moths to your flame! In fact, I know when things are going downhill. Its when the I feel like I am carrying the conversation, when the flirting has to be judged, when I end up lying to you about what I do and am reluctant to give you my msn address. By then, I am resigned to the inevitable car crash and I give up. If I am feeling a little frisky, I might play with you and start a fight..you boys are so easy to wind up, but yes, I do like to push buttons with all my might!!!!!
So what does the successful guy talk about?....food and drink, I guess. Your hobbies...music, sport, literature, history...anything that you are passionate about. I want to feel the fire in your eyes. I want to see you let go and drop your barriers. I want to know what you are like when you are happy. So I dont want to know that you are separated or recently divorced. After all, why are you telling me? Its so that I know that you arent over her. Alternatively, you seem to think its ok to tell me you want a special friend to share romantic evenings over lambrusco and soft focus lighting. The only trouble is this is all too earnest. Where did all the fun go?...I am not your counsellor or your mother....I am a playmate. I want to relax and giggle into the evening and the early hours of the morning. Just think of the games we could play with that much time!
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